Sunday, September 28, 2008

Beautiful inside and out

A lot of guys assert that they like girls who "take care of themselves," meaning that they dress nice, put on make up, and accessorize. And come on, honestly, who hasn't seen a girl change 180 degrees with and without makeup on? There's a Chinese saying that goes "世上只有懶女人沒有醜女人," which translates to "in this world, there are only lazy women, there are no ugly women." In other words, you are only unattractive if you are too lazy to take care of your looks. As far as cliches go, I'm going to have to say that it is WRONG. Here's another cliche, "if you don't cultivate your inner beauty, no matter how much time you spend on your looks, you are still ugly." As far as this cliche goes, i'm going to completely agree.

Case-in-point. There is this girl I know who does not leave the house without make up. She has a lot of nice clothes and she is always dressed up. Lots of shoes, lots of makeup, lots of clothes. She can be attractive when she's all made up but a lot of guys make fun of her and call her fat. I used to defend her because she is just bigger than your average chubby Asian girl, there's a long way to go before you get to fat. But after I got to know her better, she became more and more unattractive to me. I'm at the point where I have begun to describe her inner and outer appearance with all kinds of things that should not be said out loud.

You know, no matter how unattractive you are, if you are a good person with all kinds of inner beauty, no one will insult you out loud because they will respect you. Please take some time to at least TRY to do some introspection and develop some inner beauty. All those cakes of makeup on your face isn't doing it for anyone. I'm sure we've all got some work to do with our own personality, I admit myself that I still have a long way to go; but if you continue to spend all your time on attempting to make yourself look nice, you are just a waste of space because there are people out there who, despite do not have wonderful personalities, at least undeniably provide occasional eye candy for people naturally. If people are still making fun of you when you are made up all the time, you have a lot of work to do.

They should invent a thing called human compost so that the people who are wasting our precious resource in the environment with no contribution to society whatsoever at least have a purpose in life. Just lie there until you become fertilizer. Thank you.

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